WEDDING CEREMONY

Weddings are usually spread out over several days, starting with the Henna-staining ceremony, followed by the Nikah ceremony and ending with the Bersanding, which is the actual wedding day. 

HENNA-STAINING CEREMONY 

The excitement begins three days before the wedding. On this day, the bride-to-be shows off her trousseau, changing five to six times throughout the day, as a sign of good luck. Her friends and relatives are invited to view her wardrobe. A day after this, the wedding ceremony proper starts with the henna-staining ceremony. During this ceremony, yellowish oil, extracted from henna leaves is applied on the fingertips of the couple by friends and relatives. It announces their forthcoming unity.

NIKAH CEREMONY

Religious solemnisation of the marriage takes place on the wedding eve. Known as the Nikah ceremonyrite is required by both the Islamic law and the civic law to legalise a Malay wedding.

BERSANDING

The actual wedding day is the Bersanding. This literally means the "sitting together of the bride and bridegroom on the bridal couch". Known as the Pelamin, this couch is the centrepiece of the whole ceremony, and two pelamins are required - one in the bride's house and the other in the bridegroom's. As the Bersanding ceremony customarily takes place in the afternoon, the bridegroom entertains guests at his own house in the morning. At the agreed time, he is escorted in a procession with a hadrah or kompang band (male music group) to his bride's house. On arrival, he has to pay a 'tax' in the form of money to the girl's family before he enters each door leading to the pelamin to take his place besides his bride. An astakona, a tiered pedestalled tray, is also placed in front of the pelamin. Each tier contains a mound of cooked yellow rice studded all over with red-dyed eggs. This tray will later be presented to the emak pengantin (a close friend or relative chosen to be the matron of honour for the marriage) as an act of appreciation for her help during the ceremonies. The groom then sits with the bride on the pelamin. After this the couple returns to the bridegroom's house in a procession. They are normally accompanied by the hadrah band, with men beating a rhythm on their timbrels and reading verses from the Koran. The music proclaims their marriage to the world. At the bridegroom's house, the Bersanding ceremony is repeated for the benefit of the bridegroom's kinfolk. This is followed by feasting and merry-making, called the kenduri. The wedding celebrations come to an end when the bridal pair returns home to the bride's house to pay respects to her family.


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PARTY GAMES

Fun games to play at birthday parties

A collection of our all time favorite birthday party games for kids to play. The games on the following pages have all been tested and are approved by kids and Moms. These are the best of the best birthdayparty games and have stood the test of time. The party games have been divided into age appropriate categories for your convenience.

BIRTHDAY PARTY

Dear Parents,

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Personalized party planning services. Just tell us your requirements, we add a dash of creativity, a handful of professionalism and a whole lot of fun. From party food to party loot bags, we are pleased to be of service.

With MY LITTLE EVENT, you can have a party without having to prepare much for it. We are here to help you plan your special day.

MY LITTLE EVENT aim to assisting parents in organizing their child's/children's activities such as Birthday Party. Organizing parties to celebrate memorable occasions such as a child's birthday can be a challenging task especailly when most parents are at work or 

busy handling other domestic chores.

Our parties include science & arts related activities which are fun and educational.We also provide fun and energetic Party Assistants to entertain your little guests with our Interactive Music Movement session.

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* Food for Children and Parents too.

* Party organizing services at the client's venue 

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* Party supplies such as HELIUM BALLOONS, INVITATION CARDS, PAPER LOOT BAG, GOODIES, 

PARTY WARE and lots more.

*Children entertainment services such as balloon sculptures by Clown, Face Painting and Fun Tattoo, Fun Party Games, 

Educational & Fun Activities and Little Chef Program. 

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MY LITTLE EVENT ~CATERING SERVICES~ MY LITTLE EVENT provide catering services to a diverse clientele including individuals, government agencies, private companies as well as weddings

Our main mission with this business is to help our customers alleviate the frustrations when organizing a ‘makan-makan.’ We understand that organizing an event requires a lot of planning and preparation on your part. This is where we come in and help you restore that peace of mind knowing that your event is in the best of hands.

What makes us stand out in this industry is our prime concern in achieving customer satisfaction with every one of our customer. We want you to know that we take great pride in giving you the best of our services and it is a joyful experience for us to learn and try to fulfill your needs as our customer.

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(SHAVING CROWN)

Shaving crown is custom community of Malay in Malaysia 40 days after the birth of a baby. The response is not received after birth because the mother is not the last taboo or not healthy. Some places called it as Endoi in Kedah or Take a swing around the Kampung Gajah and Perak Tengah. 

MY LITTLE EVENT aim to assist you in organizing such memorable event from A-Z. 

Events

Some of the events during the shaving crown are:

• Slaughtered sheep or cattle Aqiqah . Meat is cooked and eaten together in the feast. Chicken can not be Aqiqah.
• Reading of the litany or Marhaban : a reading of the tree and the praise of the Prophet Muhammad .
• Putting baby in a decorated cradle. Under the cradle is placed a knife streak andincense smoke. Rope swing will be pulled by children.
• And carrying the baby around the room diarak person who was reading the litany was in the porch of the house.
• Some important guests like grandparents to the baby, the priest , the head of the village will allow them, and stroking the baby's crown or head. 

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'BERTUNANG @ NIKAH' CEREMONY

BERTUNANG & NIKAH CEREMONY

Traditionally, the man's relatives and close friends will usually go to the girl's house (without the guy) and a designated representative will ask for the hand of the girl on behalf of the guy's family. On the girl's side, they will have their own representative, which will negotiate with his counterpart on the guy's side.

Another important part of the engagement ceremony are the gifts (on trays) which are exchanged between the two families. The girls' family will usually give 2 trays more than the guy's side. The gifts vary but there are 2 important gifts which are compulsary. One is the engagement ring and another is a tray holding folded sirih (betel) leaves, pinang (betel nut) and kapur (lime) placed together in a container called 'tepak sirih'. All of this is part of the Malay 'Adat' or tradition.

CELEBRATION